Don’t want to repeat myself… but I do marvel at being here. It’s so great. I still worry a lot. Am I big enough? Shouldn’t I be showing more by now? Will the baby still be alive by my next u/s? But most of the time I just decide that the odds are in my favor and I try not to torture myself.
The m/s has pretty much totally abated. No more urgent ‘must eat now’ crashes. No more aching, queasy stomach in the morning or if it’s been more than 3-4 hours since I’ve eaten. I still eat a bit more than I was. Milk is not quite as enticing as it was, but still tastes great. Some things still don’t taste quite right (meat must be very tender and if even slightly dry tastes gross) and occasionally I get very picky — a few bites and I don’t like it any more. Also, my gag reflex has gotten much more sensitive. I’ve had to figure out some tricks to get my prenatals down (head tilting, floating them down with lots of water.) Had some really bad gagging sessions where I came *really* close to losing my lunch/dinner. Apparently, as everything becomes super sensitive in pregnancy, so does the gag reflex and even lightly touching the back of the throat can set it off. Some women have problems brushing their teeth. Haven’t had that yet — phew!
Fruits, vegetables and water are my best friend these days. Pregnancy constipation (bleh!) is not and if I don’t get my daily servings… well, enough about that. Just a word to wise for any of y’all playing along and will soon be preggo yourselves.
My energy is mostly back – yeah! I still need a nap most days, but I have started to exercise a bit again. A good walk, 40-50 minutes a few times a week. I’m building up slowly to walking every day or every other day, plus figuring out what kind of (light) weight lifting I can do. I don’t want to do yoga because a/I don’t really like it and b/wasn’t doing it before I got preggo. Dr. B said you can do almost anything you were doing before pregnancy except to keep weights to 10-15 lbs max. But I don’t think my ass is going to see a dance class for quite some time, unfortunately. Just doesn’t feel safe. Walking feels good though and I’ll start some weights this week and see how it goes.
I can’t say for sure, but I think I felt the baby kick a few weeks back. Would have been pretty early for that, but when I read the description of what that feels like in my baby book… it was exactly what I felt: a little bubble, or flutter. Very small and gentle but very there. And of course, as I haven’t felt it since, I worry about why I haven’t (!) I have felt ’something’ a few times in bed that felt less like a kick and more like a baby rolling over (?) So hard to say what that was, and again, a bit early. But I’ve heard you can sometimes feel it this early.
I’ve thought about getting one of those Doppler’s again… but I’ve read a lot of reviews that say they’re not always accurate and can cause more stress. So I’m leaning towards not getting one. Won’t see Dr. B for another 2.5 weeks. At least for now, I can hold out until then.
Hi — a lurker here from i-can’t-whistle. When I had my (IVF) baby, we called the trimesters weary, cheery, and dreary. Welcome to cheery!
By: Elizabeth on June 11, 2009
at 7:07 pm
Love that! Thanks for stopping by… but pray tell, why dreary…?!?!?!
By: onwardandsideways on June 11, 2009
at 7:13 pm
2nd Trimester! Who ‘da thunk it?
Hey, do you know the gender? Will you? I don’t recall if you’ve said. And since I’m not “in the know” on fetal tests as I haven’t been in those shoes, I don’t even know if it’s just too early to know yet.
By: Sky on June 11, 2009
at 10:45 pm
I know Sky… after all my bitching and freakouts… here I am. Here’s to 2 more trimesters!
And nope, don’t know yet. Won’t know until our scan at 20ish weeks on July 23rd. Argh! DH is convinced it’s a boy; I’m not sure. Sometimes I think it is… my cleaning lady said if they don’t tell you at the 12 week scan, it’s because it’s a girl. Who knows. I can’t decide which I would prefer (dressing up a little girl – how fun is that?!?!!?.) Obviously healthy is all that really matters… lol
By: onwardandsideways on June 11, 2009
at 11:25 pm
Not that I would suggest you ignore your real, medical doctor’s advice, but the advice that you can only lift 10-15 lbs. is in my uneducated opinion full of it. Many pregnant women lift more in their everyday life (e.g. bags of groceries, toddlers) let alone at the gym. There is a good (and well-researched) article here on what you can and can’t do: http://www.stumptuous.com/weight-training-during-pregnancy. I lift plenty more than 10-15 lbs at the gym (with blessings of doc) and haven’t noticed any issues whatsoever. But then I was weight-lifting before pregnancy too.
By: Nishkanu on June 12, 2009
at 7:22 am
hey you– first and foremost– congratulations on second semester everything!
the coolest thing ever to feel the bubble and know it could be the little one. awesome and wonderful.
thanks so much for your comment and clarifications– no way I would do DE at CCRM– I’m just looking at them for information and possible IVF, but even that is dicey. Again, if money were no object, things would be different!
I would look for clinics differently for DE, I would love your input icantwhistle at yahoo dot com
thank you SO MUCH for your information always, and for your support. I really do appreciate it, and if there weren’t such a split between what I know and what I feel, things would be different.
warmly,
kate
By: kate on June 14, 2009
at 10:24 pm